CAREER PATH MOTIVATOR
#4
Don’t let anyone crush your dreams. However, the riskier your dream, the better your backup plan must be.
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STORY BEFORE PICKING A CAREER PATH
Never crush
anyone’s dreams.
When
I was a little kid, I dreamed about playing professional basketball. In third grade, we had to write an essay on
what we wanted to be when we grew up. I
wrote that I wanted to be 6’10” and play in Madison Square Garden. When the teacher handed back my paper, she
laughed out loud and said: “You can’t do that!”
That
was the first time someone had crushed my professional dream. The teacher may have been right about the
6’10” part, but this molder of young minds lacked the understanding of what
negative reinforcement can do to little kids.
She also lacked the understanding that height isn’t everything for a
basketball player. Teachers, especially
in the impressionable K-12 years, are my personal heroes. Yet they need to be dream builders, not dream
destroyers. It’s healthy to discuss
rational backup career plans, but why spoil youthful exuberance which could
flower into the unexpected?
Postscript: When I was 25 years old, I got to play
one-on-one with 7’4” center Mark Eaton of the Utah Jazz, that year’s NBA
Defensive Player of the Year. I’ll leave
the game results to your active imagination.
This story is
the basis for Motivator #4
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Motivators™ for College Success
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